Watching the View right now. Wow. I am so stressing right now. I mean I want to have kids, but all this work? The doctor on the show says after 35, it is really hard to get pregnant. It is also hard to get pregnant who are on the pill. It can cost upwards to $25,000 to have in vitro fertilization. To adopt, it costs upwards to $10,000 and you have to be financially stable. This is ridiculous! All to have a BABY! Then there are kids having kids all over the world, and they don't know how to raise them, so the kids are raised all fucked up, or worse, the parents kill the kids! WHAT IS UP? All I want is to have a kid, not go through all this shit!
Mike and I have talked about kids. We want them, but we are not financially ready. We are emotionally and mentally ready, though. I may not be physically ready, because he says overweight and underweight women run high risks of miscarriages. I want to get off birth control, but I am afraid to run the risk of getting pregnant and not being ready.
I just wish life was easy.
Haha, random as this is, I say go for it. Nobody is ever financially ready, or are they?? But everyone I know that has gotten pregnant accidentally has always found a way. I feel like that's more reassuring. All the responsible and in turn, never have kids because they're never ready, meanwhile all the idiots are making 15 babies. didn't you see Idiocracy? :-)
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